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reblogged from littlemiss:
1. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
2. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.
3. Don’t believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.
4. When you say, “I love you”, mean it.
5. When you say, “I’m sorry”, look the person in the eye.
6. Be engaged at least six months before you get married.
7. Believe in love at first sight.
8. Never laugh at anyone’s dreams. People who don’t have dreams don’t have much.
9. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt, but it’s the only way to live life completely.
10. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.
11. Don’t judge people by their relatives.
12. Talk slowly, but think quickly.
13. When someone asks you a question you don’t want to answer, smile and ask, “Why do you want to know?”
14. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
15. Say “bless you” when you hear someone sneeze.
16. When you lose, don’t lose the lesson.
17. Remember the three R’s: Respect for self; Respect for others; Responsibility for all your actions.
18. Don’t let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
19. When you realize you’ve made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
20. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.
21. Spend some time alone.
22. Open your arms to change, but don’t let go of your values.
23. Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.
24. Read more books and watch less TV.
25. Live a good, honorable life. Then when you get older and think back, you’ll get to enjoy it a second time.
26. Trust in God, but lock your car.
27. Create a loving atmosphere in your home is so important. Do all you can to create a tranquil harmonious home.
28. In disagreements with loved ones, deal with the current situation. Don’t bring up the past.
29. Read between the lines.
30. Share your knowledge. It’s a way to achieve immortality.
31. Be gentle with the earth.
32. Pray. There’s immeasurable power in it.
33. Never interrupt when you are being flattered.
34. Mind your own business.
35. Don’t trust a man/woman who doesn’t close his/her eyes when you kiss.
36. Once a year, go someplace you’ve never been before.
37. If you make a lot of money, put it to use helping others while you are living. That is wealth’s greatest satisfaction.
38. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a stroke of luck.
39. Learn the rules then break some.
40. Remember that the best relationship is one where your love for each other is greater than your need for each other.
41. Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.
42. Remember that your character is your destiny.Posted on November 5, 2009 via Half-heartedly with 795 notes
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The Couple Separated for the Longest Time (60 years)
The Couple Separated for the Longest Time (60 years)
Sixty years ago, Boris and Anna Kozlov were married for only three days before he had to ship out with his Red Army unit. When he returned, Anna and her family were gone – exiled to Siberia by Stalin’s purges. Then one day, on a chance encounter, they found each other again!
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“I thought my eyes were playing games on me,” Anna said. “I saw this familiar looking man approaching me, his eyes gazing at me. My heart jumped. I knew it was him. I was crying with joy.” 80 years-old Boris had returned to visit his parents’ grave. As he stepped out of the car, he looked up to see Anna standing by her old house, where they had lived for the few days after the wedding. “I ran up to her and said: ‘My darling, I’ve been waiting for you for so long. My wife, my life…’”What a sweet story. It gives me hope. This year of separation for our visa process has seemed like an eternity. I can’t imagine 60 years.
Posted on November 4, 2009 via M-Altruism with 289 notes
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I’m so excited to see Bob Dylan in concert on Thursday! :)
Posted on November 4, 2009
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A gentle response defuses anger, but a sharp tongue kindles a temper-fire.
In the moment of a heated argument, it is easy to destroy the work of peace by a simple response. It is second nature to meet fire with fire, but it is that much more difficult to put out the flame with calmness and tranquility. I guess this battle over the tongue is really an outward expression of a more significant inner struggle- the struggle for true peace and happiness. To decide in your heart that you will not be moved from the core of your inner peace, that eternal part of you that vibrates in tune with all creation, is to choose to not be controlled by your temper and anger reflexes. It is gratifying to get in the last jab and to throw the last punch, but that gratification slowly fades as you stare at the broken pieces of a relationship. By swallowing the heated words and vaporizing them in a deep breath, you make great strides towards self-control and inner peace. (note to self)Posted on November 2, 2009
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My god. This is amazing. Is it for real?
Posted on October 29, 2009 via sore-thumbelina with 209 notes
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wantNEED to be here now. :)Posted on October 29, 2009 via KidsKidsKids with 13 notes
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Good relationships balance over time. This means that at any particular point in time, the relationship may appear quite unbalanced: one partner may be more nurturing; one may be more needy; one may be providing all the financial support, etc. But if both partners are loving, understanding, giving, dedicated and flexible, then the relationship can handle all kinds of ups and downs, and still be strong, exciting and romantic. The best relationships are well balanced. Not a delicate balance, not a static balance, but a dynamic ever-changing balance.
So true.
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Posted on October 28, 2009 via More than just a pretty face; with 155 notes



